– No single factors can be more destroying than conflicts that are allowed to escalate out of control!
This doesn’t mean that conflicts are bad, on the contrary, conflicts are most often the reason for development and handled correctly, they can be the source leading to new and better solutions. However, most people don’t recognize the early symptoms of conflict and do not understand the different types of conflict and thus, often choose to solve them in a counterproductive way.
Understanding the language and structures of conflicts, escalation patterns and simple steps to reconcile can make conflicts the fuel to develop your relationship. When we can reconcile, we can move forward and go on to The Journey Beyond, finding new and better ways to enjoy each other and create the loving life we strive for. Read more